Whenever I talk to people about to-do lists, they’re surprised that my biggest selling point isn’t being super-productive and achieving lots of things.
It’s being able to truly relax when you have time off, because you know you have achieved the imporant things.
If you’ve ever been taking time off (browsing the web, watching TV, whatever…), but couldn’t relax properly because you had a nagging feeling at the back of your mind that you should be working, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
I’ll start this post off by explaining why keeping daily to-do lists is working out so brilliantly for me, and why you should definitely at least give it a try (say, for a week), if you’re not used to keeping to-do lists.
In the second section, I’ll sum up my way of keeping daily to-do lists, which took me several years to figure out and perfect. Funnily enough, I recently came across Charlie Gilkey’s Premium Planners, which are virtually identical to the method I use, even though we both developed our methods completely independently. Seems like we’re on to something
Why keeping daily to-do lists rocks
As I mentioned, one of the biggest advantages is that:
- You can relax completely when you take time off
When you’ve completed your daily to-do list, you can safely relax, because you know you’ve done the important things. In fact, as I explain in the next section, it would be directly counter-productive to keep working after completing your to-do list.
- You remember things
One of the big reasons I used to leave things undone was not because I didn’t want to do them… but because I simply forgot!
With daily to-do lists, you always have a centralized place you check several times a day, so you can jot down things you want to remember.
- You get the important stuff done as opposed to busywork
As I’ll explain in a bit, one of the big parts of forming to-do lists is figuring out what the important things are. It’s not about doing more… it’s about doing the things that matter!
- You can whiz through a bunch of low-level tasks without constantly switching to high-level thinking
To-do lists are a surprisingly effective way to batch together low-level tasks. You know, the things where you don’t need to think much, once you know what you want to be doing.
If you didn’t have a list, you would need to switch back to high-level thinking after every task, to figure out what you want to be doing next. But if you figure out all the tasks in advance and write them on a to-do list, you will be batching all the high-level thinking together. And then you won’t need to tear yourself out of the flow of low-level thinking when going through the tasks.
How to keep daily to-do lists
As the name suggests, I keep a separate to-do list for each day. I sometimes jot down things a few days in advance, but generally I only finalize a daily list the evening before. And I’ve found quite a few aspects that drastically influence how well they work for me (both in terms of getting things done, and in terms of peace of mind).
1. When you finish your to-do list for the day early, DO NOT add any tasks to the list! Take the rest of the day off.
You might think that adding more tasks means you will accomplish more. But it trains your subconscious that finishing early only means punishment – more work. So you will end up procrastinating. Instead, write a to-do list for the day, and stick to it. That way, you will be motivated to get it done quickly, because it really means extra free time!
2. Things in brackets are strictly optional
As I mentioned, I use my to-do lists for two things – the important stuff, and the stuff I don’t want to forget. I do this because it means I have one convenient spot to look at. At the same time, it really helps to create clear boundaries between what’s important, and what’s merely urgent.
When I do my laundry, I put this on my to-do list so I don’t forget:
(- pick up laundry)
This is a perfect example of being urgent but not important. Because… what happens if I don’t pick up the laundry from the washing machine? Worst case scenario, it will start to smell a bit musty, and I’ll have to wash it again the next day. No… big… deal.
Also note I say strictly optional. This doesn’t mean “well it’s kind of optional but I will feel bad if I don’t do it”. Strictly optional means “I’ll write it down on my to-do list so I don’t forget, but I won’t mind if I don’t do it.”
Along similar lines, I sometimes think of an important task in the middle of the day. Based on point number 1, I don’t just write it down, because that would seriously hurt my system. So instead, I jot it down in brackets. Nice to get done, but no big deal if I don’t. And then I put it without brackets for the next day.
3. Specific, actionable points
There’s a bit of an art to writing to-do lists. You might have heard of SMART goal-setting – which I think is a serious overkill for to-do lists. I found that the two most important points are Specific and Actionable. (I’m sure there’s a way to turn this into ASS goalsetting, but I couldn’t think of one. A Vladpoint for anyone who does that in the comments
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(Update: Aaaaand, a Vladpoint goes to Chris, for the ASS goalsetting system – Actionable, Specific, Simple! Hooray!
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It simply means writing tasks where you can take action right now, and where you have one clear specific thing to do.
For example, “Arrange a dinner with friends” is pretty vague. To turn it more specific, you could separate it into “Call X, Y and Z about the dinner” and “Call restaurant X to book a table”. Of course, it’s up to you how specific you need to get.
The “actionable” part also neatly brings me to my next point:
4. Separate time-dependent stuff from the rest
By time dependent, I mean stuff that has to happen at a certain time and place. For example, if there’s a swing dancing class on Friday at 7pm, you can’t expect to show up a few hours early or late, and still take part.
When I first started keeping to-do lists, I kept the two different categories bunched in the same list. But this confused me, because whenever I kept scanning my list for things I could do right now, I kept coming across the time-dependent tasks, which threw me off.
My solution? Keep them in two separate columns on your daily to-do lists.
That way, you can easily scan your to-do list for things that you can do right now, while at the same time keeping the important time-dependent stuff there.
Quick summary
If you’ve never kept to-do lists and all this seems a bit overwhelming, here’s the core principle, to get you started:
Figure out the most important tasks for each day the evening before. During the day, complete your tasks as soon as possible, and allow yourself to take time off when you’re done.
Everything else is extra. Now grab a piece of paper and make a to-do list for tomorrow!
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Actionable, Specific, Simple. The ASS Goalsetting system sure to turn your life around!
VLADPOINT PLEASE!
@Chris:
Yay, that was quick. You caught me by surprise, so I had to go off and make you a proper Vladpoint right now. Enjoy!
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Oh, and here’s an extra bonus, just because:
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the queen of procrastination tells you: It works! ;o)
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Thank you! I have never been good at to-do lists. They usually end up containing 5,000 things that I should get done, and then they grow from there, and then I’m more anxious then ever. I’m going to try this.
Do you ever keep a master to-do list, such as a list of deadlines approaching, or things you know you’ll need to do next month?
@Yaga:
Hmmm, I’m not sure if I should listen to the queen of procrastination. After all, isn’t it every queen’s goal to increase the size of her empire?
@Anon:
I put all the future time-sensitive stuff on my google calendar. That way I won’t forget.
Also, I usually try to do a “weekly review” and a “monthly review”, where I basically take some 30-90 minutes (or a few hours, for the monthly one) off, and just think. I figure out the big general direction in my life, and what I want to get done to advance there as swiftly as possible.
What I find the hardest part of all is dividing our great, sublime projects, into fragments you can manage. I wish I was trained to do that in School…
Funny how most of your points are according to the GTD methodology, of which I’m a geek right now. I guess truth is one but the paths are many…
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@Nacho:
I found that one of the most important bits is separating the creative and focused phases. Aside from that, it’s mostly an art I’m still discovering myself
@vlad: true point, brave knight… but one has to know ones enemies…
@nacho: also true… as a teacher, i will keep this in mind. (let’s her 4year olds write tdls in her mind) ^^
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I work from home as a software engineer and I have tons of things to do. Without a to-do list, I would be dead.
Personally, I like to separate my list like this : NOW, Things to do, Some Day. When I get distracted, I come back to my “NOW” item and continue on it.
I think I’ll try your “take time off when you’re done”….
That’s a good point
@Max:
Let me know how that works out for you!
I kind of like having a to do list on my mind always. Perhaps I have figured this out as I go along with my daily task. Segregation is extremely helpful when doing task that requires certain level of thinking. In my case though, once I did my most important task, I keep the other task on hold and I relax as much as I want.
…until I my wife nags me about the cluttered dishes on the sink.
Thanks Vlad for the nice tips
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@Walter:
Ah yea, we all have different ways of doing to-do lists. I heard Leo Babauta prefers simply listing his 3 Most Important Tasks for the day ahead, and then making sure to get those done. (Or, if that’s not possible, spend his time working on the first one, as that will have the most impact on him.)
@Dia:
You’re welcome.
Well done, Vlad. You wrote a post about ‘to-do lists’ that I found helpful, inspiring and effective.
You’ve motivated me to use them more often.
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@Bamboo:
You say that as if it’s a rare thing
Seriously though, I find to-do lists extremely useful, and I wanted to share my way of approaching them with other people! Let’s hope you get as much benefit from them as I do.
yes Vlad you are right, its important to have some spare time in order to allow our minds to recover
thank u for the useful post
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@ Vlad: I haven’t been following your blog too closely. I do recall the post on list posts that I discovered from a tweet and really liked.
I’m subscribed now, though, so I’m ready to inhale all the goodness you offer.
Let the games begin, my friend.
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@Farouk:
Yeah, I’ve been doing some complicated personal development experiments regarding that… but I don’t have definite conclusions to report yet. Maybe in a month or two
@Bamboo:
Welcome on board!
Let the games begin, and may the best one prevail. Or something.
Vlad, the only thing I would add to this great post is brevity. I find, and I teach my people, that anymore than 3 items on your to do list for any given day is too much.
I position it like this: If you had a heart attack, and the doctors forced you to only work 3 hours per day, what three things would you get done? These are your priorities.
Great post, lists rock, and thanks for sharing!
Vlad, I just find you blog today and read a bunch of it. They are great.
I’ve been keeping those-kind-of lists since univesity. They help a lot but for me their main point is the peace of mind they provide. I can write down everything that needs my attention into one location then either filter them out or put them on dailies. Also, just like you suggested, I keep time sensitive tasks from others. For weekly or monthly revisions, I prefer to keep a bit relaxed periods, like when I’m feeling like to do it.
By now, after almost 15 years of habit, if I write down something into the lists, that will sure to nag me somehow and get finished.
Thaks again for the good stuff.
Halil
They do come in handy, don’t they?
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