Comments on: How to Meet People You Will LOVE Hanging Out With http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/ feel deeply alive, every single day Tue, 07 Feb 2012 12:01:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Goodbye Fun Life Development. Welcome to Alive With Passion! http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-5471 Goodbye Fun Life Development. Welcome to Alive With Passion! Mon, 07 Nov 2011 12:22:50 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-5471 [...] You can get up energized in the morning, excited about the day ahead of you. You can spend your days doing things that inspire you, rather than surviving and living for the weekend. You can meet people you will absolutely love hanging out with. [...] [...] You can get up energized in the morning, excited about the day ahead of you. You can spend your days doing things that inspire you, rather than surviving and living for the weekend. You can meet people you will absolutely love hanging out with. [...]

]]> By: Ryan http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-3134 Ryan Mon, 02 Aug 2010 18:52:22 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-3134 It's really hard for me to be myself because I used to get ticked when people tested me; which they often do, especially to males, which is for a reason, sometimes. It just bothers me, the double-standards, and how people treat me. Often I feel ignored so I don't talk to anyone. I think it's because I'm older and most people my age may be married, but it also may be the way I act. I met a really groovy girl this summer and instead of enjoying the friendship I got all ticked off when she said she was getting married because I figured it was some b.s. to either push me away or hurt me. It probably would have been better just to chill and let her go about whatever she was in her own way, rather than second-guessing; very of egotistical of me. So, I'm trying to correct that. In the meantime I have, like, 0 friends. The one guy who doesn't have kids that I know isn't on my level. I got along with the 20 year old better I met this summer than I do him; he's really ornery. Tis girl seemed real genuine and intellectual. I'm not used to that; so, after I threw my meanness in her face I reviewed some of our conversations, and am thinking she really would have been a good friend, possibly. I tend toward younger girls, but I think maybe they don't dig me as much cause I'm older and often I won't approach them in public, because I figure there's a possibility of them not being interested, even though I'm told I look younger. Older girls are fin too, I just gather that they are usually married or not interested also; plus, young girls are cute, right. I would like to meet guys too, but it's even more awkward approaching them; I think they might think either I must be a loser, especially at the college I attend, or I'm trying to use them to score points with girls or something. The only place I know where people hang out my age is church and that is not my scene. Actually, most scenes and social settings disturb me. I feel like everything is a test and there's all this competition over just interacting with people respectfully, which, to me, is like bleh... So, I stay home. There was a cool girl at the guitar store that's 24, but like she's at work, right.. Last time I went to a like local concert this girl kept walking in front of me; I think she wanted me to talk to her. I wish she would just be real and talk rather than just start with some flirtatious chase. Anyway, I had to use the bathroom and she was gone when I came back. Plus, going out costs money; then, when I do I feel like people look at me like I'm a piece of dog mess. Maybe I'll try out for a band or something and get to know people that way. I am so bummed about the way I've been and I'm not sure how much of it is people actually treating me bad or me just being narcisistic, egotistical, and maybe even conceited.... It’s really hard for me to be myself because I used to get ticked when people tested me; which they often do, especially to males, which is for a reason, sometimes. It just bothers me, the double-standards, and how people treat me. Often I feel ignored so I don’t talk to anyone. I think it’s because I’m older and most people my age may be married, but it also may be the way I act. I met a really groovy girl this summer and instead of enjoying the friendship I got all ticked off when she said she was getting married because I figured it was some b.s. to either push me away or hurt me.
It probably would have been better just to chill and let her go about whatever she was in her own way, rather than second-guessing; very of egotistical of me. So, I’m trying to correct that.
In the meantime I have, like, 0 friends. The one guy who doesn’t have kids that I know isn’t on my level. I got along with the 20 year old better I met this summer than I do him; he’s really ornery. Tis girl seemed real genuine and intellectual. I’m not used to that; so, after I threw my meanness in her face I reviewed some of our conversations, and am thinking she really would have been a good friend, possibly. I tend toward younger girls, but I think maybe they don’t dig me as much cause I’m older and often I won’t approach them in public, because I figure there’s a possibility of them not being interested, even though I’m told I look younger. Older girls are fin too, I just gather that they are usually married or not interested also; plus, young girls are cute, right. I would like to meet guys too, but it’s even more awkward approaching them; I think they might think either I must be a loser, especially at the college I attend, or I’m trying to use them to score points with girls or something. The only place I know where people hang out my age is church and that is not my scene. Actually, most scenes and social settings disturb me. I feel like everything is a test and there’s all this competition over just interacting with people respectfully, which, to me, is like bleh… So, I stay home. There was a cool girl at the guitar store that’s 24, but like she’s at work, right..
Last time I went to a like local concert this girl kept walking in front of me; I think she wanted me to talk to her. I wish she would just be real and talk rather than just start with some flirtatious chase. Anyway, I had to use the bathroom and she was gone when I came back. Plus, going out costs money; then, when I do I feel like people look at me like I’m a piece of dog mess.
Maybe I’ll try out for a band or something and get to know people that way.
I am so bummed about the way I’ve been and I’m not sure how much of it is people actually treating me bad or me just being narcisistic, egotistical, and maybe even conceited….
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]]> By: Bamboo Forest - Tick Tock Timer http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-3076 Bamboo Forest - Tick Tock Timer Sat, 26 Jun 2010 19:35:49 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-3076 Such simple, good and effective advice! Such simple, good and effective advice!
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]]> By: How to Approch Personal Development (7 Blogging Gurus Share Their Advice) http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-2720 How to Approch Personal Development (7 Blogging Gurus Share Their Advice) Sat, 13 Mar 2010 11:05:03 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-2720 [...] How to Meet People You Will LOVE Hanging Out With – You could call this the Zen of meeting people, because it’s so simple and straightforward. But you’d be surprised how many people miss this obvious point. [...] [...] How to Meet People You Will LOVE Hanging Out With – You could call this the Zen of meeting people, because it’s so simple and straightforward. But you’d be surprised how many people miss this obvious point. [...]

]]> By: Pace Smith http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-2212 Pace Smith Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:46:32 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-2212 @Vlad: Cool. I'll keep thinking about it, and I'll keep looking. Thanks! @Tim: Oh, I know plenty of spiritual entrepreneurs online. I'm specifically trying to meet some in Austin. And I'm thinking that founding the group might be the right way to go. Thanks. (: .-= Pace Smith´s last blog ..<a href="http://freakrevolution.com/2010/02/03/was-that-the-freak-alarm/" rel="nofollow">I’m sorry, was that the Freak Alarm?</a> =-. @Vlad: Cool. I’ll keep thinking about it, and I’ll keep looking. Thanks!

@Tim: Oh, I know plenty of spiritual entrepreneurs online. I’m specifically trying to meet some in Austin. And I’m thinking that founding the group might be the right way to go. Thanks. (:
.-= Pace Smith´s last blog ..I’m sorry, was that the Freak Alarm? =-.

]]> By: Vlad Dolezal http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-2211 Vlad Dolezal Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:41:09 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-2211 @Pace: My gut is telling me to go with entrepreneur first, spiritual second. So... of all the places you could meet entrepreneurs, where would you be most likely to find spiritual ones? You probably know better than me, because I know only a few entrepreneurs, and even fewer spiritual people. Your subconscious likely has quite a few ideas, if you ask it persistently. @Pace:

My gut is telling me to go with entrepreneur first, spiritual second. So… of all the places you could meet entrepreneurs, where would you be most likely to find spiritual ones?

You probably know better than me, because I know only a few entrepreneurs, and even fewer spiritual people. Your subconscious likely has quite a few ideas, if you ask it persistently.

]]> By: Tim Brownson http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-2210 Tim Brownson Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:39:56 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-2210 @ Pace - Other than Spiritualentrepreneurs.com I have no idea. Maybe you could set up an online meeting place, you a make it happen kinda person. BTW, I almost think I fit into that group although entrepreneur may be somewhat pushing it. @ Pace – Other than Spiritualentrepreneurs.com I have no idea. Maybe you could set up an online meeting place, you a make it happen kinda person.

BTW, I almost think I fit into that group although entrepreneur may be somewhat pushing it.

]]> By: Pace Smith http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-2209 Pace Smith Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:28:54 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-2209 Hi Vlad, I want to meet spiritual entrepreneurs, and I haven't been able to figure out where to meet them. If I go to a yoga class, I don't find any entrepreneurs, and if I go to a small business networking meeting, I don't find any spiritualists. Do you have any suggestions for finding places to meet groups like this that have a small overlap? Hi Vlad,

I want to meet spiritual entrepreneurs, and I haven’t been able to figure out where to meet them. If I go to a yoga class, I don’t find any entrepreneurs, and if I go to a small business networking meeting, I don’t find any spiritualists.

Do you have any suggestions for finding places to meet groups like this that have a small overlap?

]]> By: Vlad Dolezal http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-2205 Vlad Dolezal Tue, 02 Feb 2010 22:33:54 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-2205 @Eden: Yeah, meeting people takes some foresight and planning in the background, but at the same time being completely present-minded and in the moment when you meet them. Devilishly hard to balance! @Eden:

Yeah, meeting people takes some foresight and planning in the background, but at the same time being completely present-minded and in the moment when you meet them. Devilishly hard to balance!

]]> By: Eden http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/how-to-meet-people-you-will-love-hanging-out-with/comment-page-1/#comment-2202 Eden Tue, 02 Feb 2010 15:21:10 +0000 http://vladdolezal.com/blog/?p=1088#comment-2202 What a great post! It has always been so much easier to have people come to me, but it isn't as satisfying as when I actively go meet the type of people that I am attracted too. Seems so simple and yet, meeting people takes a effort and some planning! .-= Eden´s last blog ..<a href="http://geeden.blogspot.com/2010/01/studio-guest-room.html" rel="nofollow">Studio/ Guest Room</a> =-. What a great post! It has always been so much easier to have people come to me, but it isn’t as satisfying as when I actively go meet the type of people that I am attracted too. Seems so simple and yet, meeting people takes a effort and some planning!
.-= Eden´s last blog ..Studio/ Guest Room =-.

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