Comments on: Why Choose Polyamory

By: stacey

stacey — Sun, 13 May 2012 20:20:19 +0000

people nowadays are not forced to be monogamous.they just feel it is not right to break a loving and comitted relationship.Polyamory doesn’t draws you that closer as you think.you feel happy just because you think maintaining deep,loving,multiple relationships makes life.the real test would be the circumstances when either of you would not go for it..does not make sense that every desire needs to be fulfilled!if your most of the desires are fulfilled it would be selfish to ask for more.when you are with someone special you certainly wouldn’t want anyone else and in polyamory all relationships are treated in the same way and you are just one of her multiple relationship partner. i think you are not that comitted in a relationship otherwise you would have understood why monogamous people don’t tell their partner.it just hurts when you love someone and are comitted that person still trying to get more relationship certainly not for fun.

By: Taking intimate relationships to the 2.0 (:)

Taking intimate relationships to the 2.0 (:) — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 09:39:36 +0000

[...] Relationships are all about honest communication, so why would they get upset when you mention something you’re honestly thinking about? If you want polyamory at this stage in your life, and your partner doesn’t even want to hear about it… then you might not be right for each other right now. But that’s up to you to decide.” * Why Choose Polyamory [...]

By: Ocean Love

Ocean Love — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 22:25:03 +0000

My comments are simply that people have a lot to learn about love. Any spiritual text you pick up paints love in a very freeing
& limitless way. However many tend to use love as yet another area to place controls on others and even themselves. There are always going to be the two groups of people: (1) those who live by societal rules and fear any other lifestyles despite seeing that they can work. And then (2) the more fearless group who try to pursue their best life, reconfiguring their lifestyles to best suit them. It’s no easy road, going against the grain. It means alot of self reflection & soul searching. It also requires justifying oneself at any given time because people often times feel that your example directly challenges their choices. When really we are simply trying to live the lives we feel we were meant to live. Misery is a choice too, people. And I simply rebuke it.

By: Dan

Dan — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 15:02:42 +0000

Irony is strong in this blog post… Hipocricy I sense… Find it funy I am!

By: Dan

Dan — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 14:59:10 +0000

“P.S. I don’t wish to argue with anyone, and I will not respond to anyone nitpicking my comment. I am solely trying to stick up for Vlad when other people are bickering with him for his belief and his effort to bring awareness.”

I am not going to nitpick your comment – there are simply too many obvious faults with what you are saying and an intelligent reader will see it for themselves.

What I will point out is that by arguing for your doctrine with falacial logical arguments, talking down on others and then simply refusing to listen puts you along side aggressive religious preachers who simply shut off the world around them, fuel their delusion by staying in their small world of similarly minded people and ignore the world around them. This is called deluded closedmindedness. Somewhat ironic, isn’t it?

By: Super-Power Mind States 1 – Curiosity

Super-Power Mind States 1 – Curiosity — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:21:57 +0000

[...] longer will you scoff superiorly or get upset when you hear about crazy ideas like polyamory. Instead, you will genuinely evaluate new ideas based on their merit, rather than how other people [...]

By: Katie Bartell

Katie Bartell — Wed, 16 Nov 2011 07:57:49 +0000

Totally agree that it’s good to hear others’ viewpoints in order to learn something new!

By: Vlad Dolezal

Vlad Dolezal — Tue, 15 Nov 2011 10:00:41 +0000

Woo, nice long comment, Katie!

I’m generally happy to discuss things with people who have opposing viewpoints. Because guess what, that’s how I often discover and find out new things.

But yeah, aside from that, I agree with your points. This post really isn’t about calling anyone’s lifestyle wrong, it’s about bringing the awareness of polyamory to people who might be happiest in such a relationship setup!

By: Seeker Katie

Seeker Katie — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 21:43:03 +0000

[...] below is a comment I left on a fellow blogger’s blog post. In order to understand this matter, please take a peak at the post I linked to and then to [...]

By: Katie Bartell

Katie Bartell — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 21:22:22 +0000

Oops, I meant to use polyamory instead of polygamy! Sorry!